ABOUT

I'll be honest

I'm going to tell you something that most people probably wouldn't reveal because they would think it makes them less credible. 

For years, I put myself last whilst I raised our two children and built a seven figure business with my husband.  I showed up for everyone who needed me reliably, but somewhere in the middle of all of that, I quietly stopped knowing how to show up for myself.

The confidence I'd spent years building began to erode. I lost my sense of who I was outside of all the roles I was playing. I knew, intellectually, exactly what needed to change but I just couldn't shift the needle. I hated the way I looked (and as a Stylist I was full of shame about that). I gained weight (and fitness had always been a huge part of my identity).  I stopped enjoying socialising in the way I previously had, and became a bit of an introvert. I was depleted, felt irrelevant and invisible at 40, and I'd given away so much there was nothing left to build with. But honestly, I desperately wanted to be seen again. Seen inside my own life.

The difference between me and the woman sitting across from me now is that I've done the work. I know what's on the other side. And I know exactly what it takes to get there — because I've had to do it myself, while still running a business, raising children, and showing up for everyone else.

FINDING INSPIRATION

Something magical happens when women reconnect with themselves after years of prioritising others. 
It's insanely powerful.

I'm not the coach who claims they always had their shit together.

I'm the onbe who disappeared inside her own life, and then came back with something far more useful than a perfectly curated solution.
I came back with full understandin of my clients.

the founder

Nicola

I became the women I work with after having children.  Not the empathetic observer I was when I did this in my 20s. That's not a weakness. It was me graduating to the next level of expertise.

I've done the work personally.  I know what we need to do to get you back feeling energised, alive and confident. I have nearly two decades of working with women and I've developed a unique and powerful method Wardrobe Ikigai™ to transform your wardrobe (and your confidence within your authentic identity), which leads to far more changes than simply how you dress.

Get ready to fall in love in love with yourself again.

AT A GLANCE

YOU SHOULD PROBABLY KNOW

01

The problem is not you.
It's a pattern you are running.

02

You're not stuck because you haven't tried. You just haven't identified the block yet.

03

You're allowed to want more for yourself.

04
Your personal limits and beliefs will be the glass ceiling to everything you do from relationships to your career.

All about

Slow mornings, making the journey fun, movement, skincare, travel, sunrises, music, colourful trainers and Italian food.

NOT ABOUT

Aimless meetings with no intention, passive-aggressive bullsh*t, comparison with others, band-aid fixes, boring anything.

agree? we're probably a great fit.

let's work together

it's time to feel alive again!

Are you unwilling to settle for another day, week, month of a mediocrity? Ready to release the weight of a  life that  weighs you down? Fed up of being 'fine' or simply 'getting through the day' and ready to create an exceptional life? I’m here to tell you, You are Capable. You have the Power. And, You ARE in the Right Place.

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